We often betray our selves and our own convictions by allowing things into our hearts that will rob us of what is best for us. The things that are healthier and will make us stronger are sometimes not always the things that “we” think we need. It’s important to keep our hearts clean of negative assumptions. Keep your mind on those things that are first gentle, kind, humble, meek and patient. Put up with each other, and choose to love people despite whether you agree with what they believe or who they are. Love unconditionally, but do always set a healthy boundary against those things that may rob you of what is best for you. No one person is in control of any other person, we however, need to make the right choices for our own ability to be in charge of our own lives.