When the heat is turned up on our circumstances, that is when the true colors come out of people. People are just human, very imperfect. When squeezed a lot the worst that is inside of them will come pouring out. We need to keep a learning attitude. When those days come along we need to clean ourselves up of all the impurities, grieve the pain and loss, let go of those things that are trying to rob us, and move forward. Sometimes the pain seems too hard to bear.We need to spot those things that are hidden inside of us and allow that stuff to be purged from us. We choose to forgive and it will bring us farther ahead in our walk than we ever were. No turning back.